Positive Psychology - A Consumer's Story - Anne Koss

Recently someone who read my work said that she felt it was positive psychology. That was wonderful to hear. It is neat to see it work for someone who is close to you. Below is the story of Anne Koss. She has been a wonderful addition to the community that I participate in. So instead of telling you about change in my words now you can hear in the words of others.

Anne Koss

My name is Anne Koss and this is my story.  Before I got involved with Painting Pathways my life was not going so well.  I had made some poor decisions and wound up in jail.  I had struggled with bi-polar illness and addictions.  As a result, I had burned many bridges.  I was scared and my self esteem was at an all time low.  Some of the things that other people take for granted, such as spending time with loved ones and having mutual trust with others, was not possible for me.  When I got out of jail I ended up living in a homeless shelter for three months because I had nowhere else to go.

 My sisters, Mary and Judy, heard about Painting Pathways Clubhouse from Jane at United Way and they made arrangements for me to learn more.  I immediately felt a sense of belonging.  I began making friends right away, and discovered that others had experienced situations similar to mine.  The level of acceptance I felt was amazing.  Participating in the dual recovery support group allowed me to express my feelings and emotions.  Keeping busy in the culinary unit baking, cooking and helping others gave me a sense of purpose.  I began to develop confidence.  I also began to understand the importance of setting goals in my life and following through.

Now my life has changed for the better.  Rather than feeling scared and lonely, I now feel more content and open to positive people.  I am stable.  While I know I have more challenges ahead, I have hope.  I am now living independently in my own apartment and I’m attempting to get custody of my son, Jake.  I am ready to be a good parent, sister and friend.  When people see me today, they can’t believe the changes I have made and the person I am becoming.  My story is just one example of how Painting Pathways is changing lives! - Anne koss

Strong caring and compassionate relationships go a long way to build the person behind the difficulties. But then, this is something that we all face in our lives. We all need someone who is empathetic and can truly understand. In this story Anne found compassion from others. I think that her recovery is based on compassion for herself and the compassion from the members and staff at Painting Pathways. Way to go Anne!